Chinese Conversation - lesson 489
你可以试着说：“你看来真是不错，而且令人感兴趣，我愿意进一步和你加深了解。”这样，他们会更愿意对你友好，因为你把他们看成是立体的真实的人，而且欣赏他们的内在品性。这样做，你不仅了解了美国人、锻炼了你的英语，而且在此过程中还得到了一个真朋友。
Instead try saying, “You seem like a real nice and interesting person and I would like to get to know you better.” This way, they are much more inclined to be friendly because you see them as a three dimensional person and appreciate them for who they are in the inside. And by doing so, you not only learn about America and practice your English, but also gain a real friend in the process.
(Source: wwenglish.com)